Forget Bethlehem.
A houseboat trip through the Indian backwaters of Alleppey brought me to the real birthplace of Jesus — where saints are crafted and God is created.
The St. Thomas Statuary, of course.
Forget Bethlehem.
A houseboat trip through the Indian backwaters of Alleppey brought me to the real birthplace of Jesus — where saints are crafted and God is created.
The St. Thomas Statuary, of course.
You know it’s been a good day when you have to scrub away sweat, salt and three colors of sand.
When you go to bed choking on giggles, even though you have to wake up in a few short hours.
When your gut is about to burst from candy and chutney and spice, and you don’t regret a single calorie.
When you play in the ocean until your muscles hurt.
When strangers become friends.
I’ve spent the past few days locked away in an ashram near Trivandrum. But Friday was a day off from serious yoga, meditation and attaining enlightenment — so a bunch of us took a field trip to Kanyakumari, the most southern tip of India. It’s where three bodies of water converge, the Bay of Bengal, the Indian Ocean and the Arabian Sea. The different currents wash up different colors of sand, so wet toes kick up layers of gold, red and black.
It’s also a spiritual place for Hindu pilgrims, as it is where the virgin Kanyakumari — an avatar of the goddess Parvati — waited to win the hand of lord Shiva.
As the story goes, Shiva failed to show up for his own wedding. (Bastard!) So all the food from the wedding feast was angrily tossed into the water and onto the shore. The grains of rice eventually turned into stones, while the curries wash up on the beach, creating the different colored sand we see today. Goddess Kanyakumari continues to watch over the area, and a 3,000-year-old temple on the beach pays tribute to her.
Our day brimmed over with waterfall dancing, battling the ocean waves and getting blessed with smudges of red paint and sandalwood paste on our foreheads. We were like kids unleashed at an amusement park for the first time — indulging in soda, eating too many sweets and dosas, and laughing until we cried.
More proof that field trips ALWAYS rule.
The rippling sound of giggles, screams and laughter had more power than the waterfall’s babble.
About 10 women stood in a circle, holding hands. They were waist deep in the greenish water, bouncing up for one second before submerging themselves all at once. Their sari fabrics billowed and ebbed with the currents, swirling in a cacophony of color.
These ladies were modest enough to wear their clothes into the water, but practical enough to leave their panties behind on the dry rocks.
After about 20 minutes of bouncing and delicate paddling, the whole scene devolved into splashing and dunking. Their laughter was practically electric, impregnating the air with lightness and joy.
India does a lot of things well. Unfortunately, coffee is not one of them.
Ever since I arrived in this country, I have tried — and failed — to find a decent cup of joe. I’m not talking fancy steamed soy milk sugar-free almond lattes here. I simply want coffee grounds that have been introduced to hot water.
Every time I sit down at a restaurant or find a coffee stand, I ask if they serve filtered coffee, REAL coffee. And every time I’m given the traditional Indian head waggle.
Inevitably, I am given a cup of weak, instant Nescafe, and that’s just not gonna cut it for this caffeine fiend.
At my hostel in Mysore, I decided to give it one last go. “Coffee? Tea?” asked the bellhop. “No charge.”
“Sure, I’ll try some coffee,” I said.
The bellhop proceeded to bring me a tall glass of the palest, saddest brew I’ve ever seen. It looked like coffee that had given up on life, coffee that needed an intervention, suicidal coffee.
The bellhop thrust out his open palm. “Twenty rupees.”
“You said no charge,” I reminded.
“Ah, no charge for the coffee,” he said. “Twenty rupees for me to bring it to you.”
I grudgingly forked over a bill.
That beige coffee-ish liquid wasn’t working for me, so I decided to pull out all the stops. I asked the bellhop for a cup of hot water.
See, I have a weapon — a top-secret stash of Starbucks Via. Yes, it’s instant, but it’s the lesser of all instant evils. I have been carrying these packets around the world for nine months now, carefully rationing as I go and saving them for dire circumstances.
In Mysore, I was ready. All I needed was a cup of hot water.
“No hot water,” said the bellhop. “Is not possible.”
“Why not possible?”
“No hot water.”
“But you have water to make coffee, right?” I said.
“Yes.”
“But no water if I want hot water.”
“Exactly.”
“Where can I get hot water?”
The bellhop flipped his hand noncommittally. He shrugged, “Out there. Outside.”
So I asked the manager where I could find a cup of hot water. The manager exchanged words with the bellhop and chastised him in rapid Hindi.
The bellhop grimaced at me. “Fine. Two minutes,” he promised.
Thirty minutes later, a tall glass with hot water arrived in my room.
Thanking the man, I tipped him 10 rupees.
I tore open the Starbucks packet and poured it in at once. The powder swirled, danced and swelled as my spoon made a current through the hot water. Soon the clear liquid was a satisfying, rich brown. The aroma of roasted beans and warmth filled my nose. I was just about to lift the glass to my lips when …
The bellhop rapped at my door.
“Do not drink that, madam” he said.
“Why not?”
“I have done something bad,” he said, hanging his head in shame. “The water is not safe for the drinking.”
I handed him the cup and he pivoted on one foot. Then my Starbucks — and questionable water — disappeared down a mildew-encrusted hallway.
One packet down.
It all began at the palace. It was my first night in Mysore, and I wanted to see what time the gates opened for tours the following day.
A kid, maybe 15 or 16 years old, approached me with a wide smile and a boisterous, “Hallo!”
I’m used to this. Usually the kids want to practice English, or they are curious about other countries.
His name was Mustafah, and he was one of the most charming boys I’d ever met. His wiry frame was topped with a mop of shiny black hair, and he had a smile as long and rambling as the Ganges.
He told me there was a market in Old Mysore, which only takes place once a week. There I could find people making incense, making saris, turning flowers into essential oils and rolling beedi Indian cigarettes. He gave me directions and told me how to find the place.
Then Mustafah said he was headed the same direction. We could split a rickshaw, he suggested.
I agreed, so he hailed someone down.
Several kilometers outside of town, we finally arrived. Mustafah entered the market with me, but the place seemed vacant and isolated. Only a few customers trundled between rickety stalls, selling hardware, rice and dried beans.
It didn’t have the sweeping excitement of the boisterous city streets, where fresh fruit, sunny jasmine blossoms and elaborate sandalwood carvings overwhelmed the senses.
I asked Mustafah if this was really the market — and if so, where we were the people making incense, essential oils and beedies?
“Oh, that’s down the street,” he said.
We ended up even traveling even further from town. Up a slight staircase and inside a shadowy room, we found a group of men sitting on the floor, making beedies.
Mustafah said the incense factory was another kilometer away, so we hopped into the rickshaw again.
I began to feel incredibly uneasy. The market wasn’t what I had expected at all. I was being swept from one place to another, traveling farther from my hotel all the time. Also, I was getting the distinct feeling that the rickshaw driver and Mustafah were in on this together, because they were a little too friendly, a little too conversational, and the driver knew all the stops without Mustafah ever saying a word.
I asked them to take me back to my hotel.
Instead, they offered me a milkshake.
I declined and said I don’t like dairy.
Again, they offered me a milkshake, but this time they were a little more forceful.
I declined. This time I was a little more forceful.
“You like coffee?” said the driver.
“Yes, I like coffee.”
“I bring you to coffee shop,” he said. “Mysore is very famous for our coffee shops. We’re like Amsterdam!”
I said I wasn’t interested. “Please, just take me to my hotel.”
“No, no. You will like the coffee shop very much. We have many types of hash, many things for you to enjoy,” he said. “You will be so high and so happy.”
Finally I said if they didn’t take me to the hotel, I would find another rickshaw driver who would.
Reluctantly, he drove me back.
The hotel manager was sitting outside when the rickshaw pulled up. As I walked inside, he shook his head.
“Verrrry bad men,” he said. “Let me guess, they found you at the palace?”
It turns out that this is a common scam, and it happens frequently to solo female travelers in Mysore.
The rickshaw drivers/unauthorized tour guides pick up women, coerce them to go outside of town, then give them drinks laced with drugs.
In my case, it was a milkshake.
When the woman is thoroughly stoned out of her mind, the guys use the opportunity to beat her, take her things and leave her stranded.
I got out of there unscathed, but other women aren’t so lucky. The manager said an American woman was found passed out and naked near the beedi factory just last month.
I told the hotel manager I appreciated him telling me these stories, but it would have been more helpful to hear them earlier in the day. I made him promise that the next time a woman checks in alone, he’ll give her a warning.
I also felt incredibly stupid. I’ve been traveling for a long time now, and I thought I knew all the scams. They say there’s a sucker born every minute — and sometimes that sucker is me.