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Where the day takes you

July 20, 2010

The whole situation seemed kind of shady.

The Husband and I signed up with a tour that would take us by bus to Paracas Bay, where we would be met by a driver to take us to our hostel, then continue the tour the following day.

Except the bus dropped us off at a shack made of sand and straw. There was nobody there to meet us. A couple of random people spoke fast Spanish and tiptoed around us.

Within a few minutes the entire place was empty. The air was cooling off fast, and soon night would come.

Eventually a woman showed up pointed to us and ushered us into a van. “You go here,” she demanded. Two other people jumped in the van, and we took off.

The Husband shot me a knowing look, then slipped the knife out of his pocket and concealed it in his palm. I was visibly shaking.

The van crawled to a stop at the end of a sandy road on the beach — in front of a stunning hotel. The driver said, “Ta-da!”

This is where we ended up staying for the night.

This was the view from our balcony.

The room was sweet and simple and quite luxurious compared to our $8 a night hostels.

We ended the day hand in hand, walking along the beach, like some sort of “Love Songs of the ’60s” commercial.

The next day the tour guide met us as planned, and all was well.

 

It’s all about your perspective

July 18, 2010

I’ve been taking some photos of the Peruvian people, like this woman in traditional garb.

So I cracked up when I saw this graffiti that shows a woman in traditional garb, photographing a backpacker.

 

Cusco is a lover

July 11, 2010

Cusco reminds me of the sexy muscian your parents never want you to meet. It’s a place that makes you fall for it hard and fast, with the risk that you’ll never go home again.

There’s a lot of energy here, with backpackers and adventurers from all over the world mingling with 400,000 residents. You’ll find an eclectic mix of bars, restaurants and lounges representing every culture, and the Plaza de Armas is always a party. Toss in some stunning architecture and ancient ruins, and you’ve got yourself a city that will steal your soul.

I really thought this was just going to be a cute stopover on the way to the Inca Trail. But I was wrong. So wrong.

I love Cusco for being my first in this year of wild exploration — but I also love it for being the kind of city that drops you to your knees with a kiss.

 

Appreciating what you have

July 2, 2010

With less than a week to go before Deborah and I launch this wild adventure, I’m already starting to get a little homesick.

Of course I’m looking forward to traveling. Of course.

But I think some freaky woo-woo stuff must be going on, because I swear home has never looked so good. Lately on my morning walks, I just have to stand still for a few seconds to soak in all the goodness.

These things I’ve taken for granted, now they all seem to be hitting me at once. The desert has never looked so stunning.

My adorable little Lemon has never been so sweet and cuddly.

My husband has never been this handsome or fun or downright amazing.

My apartment has never seemed so appealing.

My friends have never been this witty or entertaining, and I have never loved them so fiercely.

And Kung Pao Kitten … well, you know. He’s kind of manic depressive. But I love him anyway.

Even the most mundane things are starting to seem exciting and wonderful, since I’m going to mostly do without for the next year. Like toilets — how great are those things? You can flush ’em and everything! And there’s even toilet paper on the wall right there!

And hot showers. Man, those are awesome.

I’m beginning to realize that while travel is about seeing new sights, learning about new cultures and making connections with new people, it’s also about appreciating what you already have.

Funny how a trip around the world helps you discover the richness of home.

 

How to break up with your job in 5 easy steps

June 17, 2010

There are 50 ways to leave your lover, but there’s really only one way to leave your job. If you’re going to travel around the world, chances are you’re going to have to resign.

For me, that’s been the scariest part of this whole venture. This is the first time in my adult life that I’ll be without a job, a 401K and an insurance package, and that’s pretty damn terrifying. And the prospect of sitting face to face with my boss, telling him about my crazy travels plans, was even more frightening.

Though I haven’t left any jobs before, I have left boyfriends. (Lots of them, actually.) So in abandoning my job, I applied the same principles of abandoning people.

How to break up with your job in five easy steps:

1. Do it in person. I once broke up with a dude over e-mail, and it’s something I still regret. Major life changes shouldn’t be made via computer or text message.

2. It doesn’t have to be dramatic. You’re all adults here. Keep the conversation calm and be open to discussion. Be direct and honest about what you want. Remember that this is difficult for both of you.

3. Not all relationships are created equal. You know how some people can remain friends after a break-up while others can’t? That’s how it is with jobs too. Maybe your boss is open to the possibility of a long-term leave of absence instead of a full-blown resignation. Maybe there’s a way you can do your job from the road. Maybe the position will be open for you when you return. Or maybe there’s a lot of anger and resentment about your departure and your boss will stab you with a pen. Every situation is different.

4. Don’t undervalue your worth. There are occasions that call for self-deprecation, but this isn’t one of them. You have every right to pursue your passion and you deserve to be living out your dreams.

5. Move on. Don’t talk smack about your company, don’t harbor any regret, don’t get sad. Appreciate what you had with this job and use it to launch you into an even bigger, better career in the future.

In my case, talking to my boss was an enormous relief. He said he understood and respected my decision to leave. I asked him if he thought I was nuts for taking on a round-the-world journey and he said, “You know, ships are safe in the harbor, but ships weren’t made for the harbor. Ships were made to sail.”

Now that’s a nice ending for a beautiful relationship!